I know there are many adults out there like kids who still blindly believe and follow these kinds of patriarchal norms in the society. Time has changed. While in most of the modern families where both the partners are acting as breadwinners, cooking along with other household errands is a piece of bone in her throat. And in these situations, most of us wonder, what holds my husband back and to feel like, he has no business in helping with household. So, this is a post which intends to make it possible for both the partners to participate in the art of cooking. For better understanding let’s classify people with the different mindsets.
Type A: people who believe household especially cooking is women’s jobs. I would have happily agreed with you if we lived in that nomadic era where men hunts-women cooks. Nowadays, where women are less dependent on men, this equation doesn’t seem to be balanced anymore. If this continues, I foresee in less time the equation will be reversed. So, guys out there, better equip yourself with basic living skills and be a good role model for your kids. Or else you can make some extra dollar to get a robot or maid for the job to be done. And to my knowledge cooking is a basic survival skill that every human should master. Yes, you are lucky enough to get a wife who does everything without any complaints. However, it doesn’t mean that, she doesn’t like to see you in sharing the chores.

And a word to the ladies of the same belief – you can do cooking or cleaning all by yourself if you enjoy it (I don’t think many of us will) or thinking that to help the partner. But, remember your girl and boy is looking at you. It’s ‘OK’ to get some help from the partner and don’t forget to train your boy and girl with basic skills to live independently.
Type B: To guys who think I’m not good at cooking/cleaning but my wife is really good– Do you know, if you google the best 10-20 chefs around the world 2020 you can’t find any lady chef in there. Which means you guys are talented too. And one more reminder, we girls doesn’t know all of these arts when we were born. I believe a perfect partner can learn anything to help with his wife in/out around the house.
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Now coming on to the girls- give him some opportunity to try out his skills on cooking…. sometimes we will have to figure out the right chance for doing so. For instance, have you ever heard your dear one getting loquacious on his mom’s delicious cooking skills?? Girls, it’s a golden opportunity ..!! Even if it tastes yucky keeps your thumbs up..its said that man’s cooking and women’s driving are similar in terms of risk.. well, no one is perfect right huh??..Encourage him and don’t forget to be grateful..
Type C: The people who think I’m so busy with my office works and cooking is disrespectful task. I believe every work has its own dignity. Many people out there find cooking as a time for bonding and caring amidst hectic professional life. The extent to which partners share the responsibility will affect how they feel and think about each other. And if not handled properly it may seriously damage your marital status. And trust me, most of the ladies out there don’t want you guys literally to help them, but your presence in the kitchen or somewhere around her working..
And girls, it’s always a better idea to discuss and figure out about sharing the household duties before the marriage itself.

Type D : guys who enjoy cooking and helping in kitchen. Well, you guys are doing the perfect thing..And to the lucky girls who is enjoying these companionship please don’t take advantage of them all the time.
let me conclude here..so,who is cooking tonight?? time for me to cook..haha..😀I know there is a huge disconnection between what we write and what we practice in daily life. And I believe that day will come when we all enjoy living in an unconventional and unbiased society.
So, let me know to which category you belong to??
Hope you enjoyed the post don’t forget to Share your thoughts on the same…have a wonderful long-weekend…☺️
yah you are right it’s absolutely fair to get some help from each another !
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Thank you friend for stopping by and sharing your thoughts 💭yes marriage is all about sharing and caring ..😊👍🏻
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I abdolutely agree with you!
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sorry for the typing mistake 🙂I meant I absolutely agree with you !
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No worries I read it right 😀
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😊🙏thank you once again and have a wonderful day..
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Nice one😊👌👍
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Thank you 🙏
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Smiles. I enjoyed the read and the practicality of it. 😊
Thank you for sharing. 🤗
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Thank you friend for the continued support..😊😊yes Intentionally made it simple and practical rather than focusing on the flip side of the topic ..
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You are welcome. 🤗
Smiles. I love it. Keep it up.
Happy Thursday ma’am. 😊
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Hehe… You made me think which category I fall in. 😁
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Hahaha 😂..that’s a cleverest way to answer on a public platform ..😊👍🏻
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Such a great post. Quite thought provoking
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Thank you friend for stopping by and sharing your thoughts 💭..
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Partnerships are all inclusive- the equal sharing and responsibilities of running a household. It makes for a happy home. An excellent penning!
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Thank you Sir for sharing your inspiring thoughts ..😊
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You are sincerely welcome!
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Loved reading this! ✌️
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Thank you Rashmi for stopping by and I happy that you enjoyed reading it😊🙏
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Very much impressive article. I love making most of the dishes. You are absolutely right. … chefs…
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Thank you Kamal for stopping by and sharing your thoughts..and I’m happy that you found the article impressive 😊..you’re doing it right..👍🏻cooking is such an amazing art anyone can enjoy unless you’re being forced to do so😂
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Yeah, you are right.
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👍😊
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Straight forward 💛💙
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Well explained post .
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You have dealt with the issue impartially and practicallly. Kudos!
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😀that’s really interesting observation..it might be a result of preset mind of mine..I believe as a content creators we should always speak impartial on a certain issue and If we really want a change we should focus on the solutions rather than beating around the bush..!!
Thank you Sir for stopping by and sharing your thoughts 💭..have a wonderful day..☺️
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I am nominating you on Great Achiever Mahasiddhi Blogger Award because of your creativity. Please accept my proposal. Please check on my post on it.
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Thank you for the nomination..
it’s an great honour.. ☺️
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Welcome. Plsss submit as soon as possible.
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Thank You for the follow! Much Appreciated!
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Nice post, Although I am now learning how to cook but I will try to be Type D. 😃
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Good for you dear..Yes marriage is all about caring and sharing(including household)
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Thank you AnuRijo for your advice.
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Cooking as a team is a good idea:)
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Yes indeed 😊
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Family and adjustments 😍
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It’s family is all about adjustments 😊thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts..😊👍🏻
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😊✌️
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Hi AnuRijo enjoyed reading your post as always 🤠
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Thank you Sir for stopping by and sharing those kind words 😊
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Your posts are realistic and positive. Your writing has ability to change even the minds of devil’s to think positive and try hands on something which he or she never wanted to.
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Hi Prisanpraia, (I hope it’s your name-like it,it’s unique..!)
Thank you for stopping by and saying those kind and motivating words..!!!Actually, I really needed this today..!! You know, sometimes we all needed some kind of driving forces to keep on going..!! usually I do a post on weekends , however this week I’m stuck ..mind was blank..!!..but now I can think about doing one at least by Monday.!!Thanks again!!
yeah, as a content creator, If I could at least spread some positivity, then that’s all I want..
Anu
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Thanks.
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Couldn’t agree more
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hehh..I know…this happens in most of our families..
bdw, thank you for dropping by and sharing your valuable thoughts..
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